转载～想拥有怎样的人生……
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p class="empty_paragraph"> </p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20241028090324front2_0_1675372_Fp6okOD6qro7ZGxeji1Dp-EI9c8b.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmbquWQn-WxheWjqw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/69/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1080" height="772" data-qf-origin="forum/20241028090324front2_0_1675372_Fp6okOD6qro7ZGxeji1Dp-EI9c8b.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmbquWQn-WxheWjqw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/69/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p> 那些风花雪月的背后，是另外一个人硬生生地撑起了一地鸡毛。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20241028090350front2_0_1675372_FjmKJ7I8eSp6YBYmVQPMHYK254b2.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmbquWQn-WxheWjqw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/69/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1080" height="772" data-qf-origin="forum/20241028090350front2_0_1675372_FjmKJ7I8eSp6YBYmVQPMHYK254b2.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmbquWQn-WxheWjqw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/69/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p> 在我们的生活中，有太多太多的女性一遍又一遍重复着张赞英走过的路，他们被困在传统婚姻观念和性别分工里，被困在妻子、母职、家庭主妇的角色里，他们是孩子的母亲、婆婆的儿媳、丈夫的妻子，却唯独不是他自己。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/forum/20241028090409front2_0_1675372_FsInrU4r73478hP4BOzj8Ga7vL5c.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmbquWQn-WxheWjqw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/69/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" alt="" width="1080" height="796" data-qf-origin="forum/20241028090409front2_0_1675372_FsInrU4r73478hP4BOzj8Ga7vL5c.jpg?watermark/3/text/QOmbquWQn-WxheWjqw==/fontsize/400/dissolve/80/gravity/South/fill/IzM2MzYzYQ==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/69/dy/16/image/aHR0cDovL3BpYy5hcHAueXRiYnMuY29tL3dhdGVyX2ltZ18yMDE4MTEyNl80NTEuanBn/dissolve/80/gravity/South/dx/-34/dy/10" /></p><p> 成为自己并不是一条好路，是内疚、挣扎、徘徊、被痛斥、被指责[流泪]。但是如果还有机会，如果还有来生，你要不要走？真正的爱从来不是建立在对自我的磨削上，而应该是成就自己，完成自己的人生叙事，实现自己人生的完整性。</p><p> 我时常觉得，人生就是一次又一次选择的叠加，选择钱还是名，选择家庭还是事业，选择死磕还是放弃，左转还是右转，人生从来没有圆满，只是一种选择，这个选择遵从内心，你觉得有价值，于是就是完满的一生。愿我们每一个人、每一个女生都能更自由、更勇敢的去走自己的路。</p><p> </p> <!----></div>
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