人生碌碌，竞短争长，却不知枯荣有数，得失难量。
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.ytbbs.com/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=20240712"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p>把时间拉长看，人生真相就四个字：无常为常。</p><p>早年顺风顺水的，中年后可能疾病缠身、晚景凄凉，当初以为的前途无量，转眼成空。</p><p>年轻时穷困潦倒的，中年后反而可能财官两旺、事事圆满，曾经觉得人生无望，后来柳暗花明。</p><p>曾仕强先生说得精辟：“人生就是水深火热，火热水深。” 刚从一边爬出来，又掉进另一边。</p><p>只要活着，人就常在两种状态间摇摆：一是踌躇满志，觉得未来一片光明；二是万念俱灰，感到前路一片漆黑。</p><p>但真相是：当你踌躇满志时，别把未来想得太好。也许你厌恶的今天，正是未来回不去的昨天。可能你最好的时光，恰恰就是此刻。</p><p>当你万念俱灰时，也别把未来想得太糟。美好的日子，真的可能在风雨后到来。</p><p>人是可以突然变好的。</p><p>那个转折点，可能是一个人、一件事，甚至只是一个闪过的念头。短则几个月，长则一两年，你会像被什么猛地拉回正轨，做事顺手顺心，周围的人和事都仿佛来成全你。</p><p>这就是“时来天地皆同力”——当命运齿轮开始转动，哪怕你身在谷底，它也能把你带到你从未想过的高度。</p><p>这不是鸡汤，这是事物发展的客观规律。只有亲身体验过的人，才懂这种力量带来的蜕变有多强大。</p><p>所以，别太过焦虑。世间事，看似由我们掌控，实则大多身不由己。</p><p>我们能做的，是让心像水一样：不抗拒，不执着，得失皆流过。心似白云常自在，意如流水任东西。</p><p>得时不狂，失时不慌，静待命运的下一章。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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